via LIVE Web Cast: Integral Practice: A Year Long Intensive with Diane Musho Hamilton & Dr. Marc Gafni
Integral Practice : A Year-Long Intensive
With Diane Musho Hamilton and Dr. Marc Gafni
LIVE Teleseminar via the Web
Starts: Monday, April 27, 2009
Ends: Monday, March 15, 2010
6-7:30pm MDT
Classes run for 1.5 hours and meets on Mondays once a month
Registration is Limited to 75 Participants – Sign up Today!
Registration: $569
Integral practice is a comprehensive approach to your personal evolution, growth and transformation. Integral Practice brings together the world’s best evolutionary practices and the most potent insights for you to engage on your personal growth journey. These insights have been lovingly gathered from the all of the great systems of mind and heart that have been flourishing on our planet since the dawn of humanity. These heart opening and mind-blowing methods of Integral Personal Evolution have been tried and tested in the spiritual lab of human potential and developed by Ken Wilber, together with Diane Musho Hamilton Sensei, Dr. Rabbi Marc Gafni and several other lineage holders from some of the great spiritual traditions, through the Integral Institute.
These practices and teachings have been brought together into a systematic program of spiritual cross-training, designed to radically transform your life on all levels and lines of your existence.
Integral practice uses the leading edge systems and models of human growth- East and West – and distills their major components into five simple insights and practices that are the essential elements or keys to unlocking and facilitating human evolution.
If you are committed to:
• Being love, giving love, and receiving love
• Being a significantly happier, deeper, and more evolved being
• Meeting your human obligation to grow and transform
• Committed to giving your most profound gifts to heal the fragmented world we live in
Then you CANNOT AFFORD NOT TO MISS OUR INTEGRAL PRACTICE TELECOURSE
Watch The Three Faces of Spirit video with Dr. Marc Gafni
A rare opportunity
Life demands that we show-up in the gorgeous wonder of our pure excellence. We can either hear the personal address of the Kosmos calling us in love, to Wake Up and Be the Beauty that you Already Are, or remain asleep. If you are committed to genuine change, to embodying an enlightened evolutionary worldview, to being love, to being freedom in your inner and outer world, and to partnering with the Divine in re-creating the Kosmos – start today with Integral Practice!
How the event will be structured
During each hour and a half session (6pm to 7:30pm MT), Diane Musho Hamilton and Dr. Marc Gafni will present and explore tools to sustain your personal and spiritual growth practice for life. Develop an Integral Practice that is self-supportive, self-sustaining, and self-actualizing. In this year-long intensive, Integral Spiritual leaders and teachers Diane Musho Hamilton Sensei and Dr. Marc Gafni will offer you personal challenges and deeply loving instruction through a breakthrough program for evolving your body, mind, and spirit through all quadrants, levels and lines of your life.
What you’ll receive as a participant
In addition to the opportunity to participate in this rare and historic event, you’ll also receive the MP3 downloads of all eighteen hours of the seminar. So if you can’t make it at the scheduled time, you’ll be able to experience the seminar in its entirety afterward—and you’ll be able to revisit it over and over again.
Cost
The chance to engage with these two world class spiritual teachers for such an extended period of time is so rare and valuable that we could easily command a high price for attendance. But in order to enable as many people as possible to participate, we’ve made tuition only $569. That includes all eighteen hours of the seminar, in addition to the MP3 downloads. For this very reasonable fee you’ll be able to spend Monday evenings for an entire year deepening your understanding of the meaning of spiritual development today. This is an event you truly don’t want to miss.
Time Zones
EDT (New York) 8:00pm – 9:30pm
MDT (Denver) 6:00pm -7:30pm
PDT (San Francisco) 5:00pm – 6:30pm
Dr. Marc Gafni is a cutting edge, gentle and provocative spiritual artist and teacher, public intellectual, bestselling author, television personality, social activist and lover of people. He is a rabbi and teacher of Kabbalah and Evolutionary Spirituality and received his doctorate from Oxford University. He is a core founder and faculty of iEvolve: Global Practice Community. Marc is also the Spiritual Director and VP of Strategic Planning for Integral Recovery.
Diane Musho Hamilton is a gifted mediator, facilitator and teacher of Zen and Integral Spirituality. She is a co-director of the Integral Life Spiritual Center and has worked with Ken Wilber and Integral Institute since 2004. Diane is the Senior Teacher for Integral Recovery. She is the lead trainer on Integral Life Practice. She is also a core founder and faculty of iEvolve: Global Practice Community.
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UPDATE: iEvolve: Global Practice Community Telecourses and Upcoming Events
iEvolve Upcoming Telecourses
Integral Life Purpose
Unique Self: Realizing the Unique Purpose of Your Life as Your Spiritual Path
A Three-Week Telecourse with Dr. Marc Gafni
Starts: Tuesday, April 7, 2009
Ends: Tuesday, April 21, 2009
Investment: Early-bird cost of $125 (regularly $149, offer expires March 18th)
Registration is limited to 100 participants – Sign-up today!
To register and for more information, visit: www.ievolveglobalpracticecommunity.com
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Integral Practice: A Year-Long Telecourse
With Diane Musho Hamilton Sensei and Dr. Marc Gafni
Starts: Monday, April 20, 2009
Ends: Monday, March 15, 2010
Registration is limited to 75 participants – Sign-up today!
Investment: Early-bird cost of $489 (regularly $569, offer expires March 18th)
To register and for more information, visit www.ievolveglobalpracticecommunity.com
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iEvolve Upcoming Events
Sexuality, Spirituality, & Shadow:
The Three S’s of Dynamic and Personal Evolution
With Diane Musho Hamilton, Marc Gafni, and Sofia Diaz
May 20-24, 2009
Boulder, Colorado
To register and for more information, visit www.ievolveglobalpracticecommunity.com
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Integral Journey of Love
…Creating a WE Space of Insight and Compassion
With Diane Musho Hamilton Sensei and Rabbi Marc Gafni
Friday, May 29th
Unity Church
6pm-10pm
Vancouver, BC, Canada
Followed by…
Integral Journey of Love: Weekend Retreat
With Diane Musho Hamilton Sensei and Rabbi Marc Gafni
May 30-31st
University of BC
Vancouver, BC, Canada
To register and for more information, visit www.ievolveglobalpracticecommunity.com
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UPDATED – Marc Gafni Telecourses with iEvolve: Global Practice Community
iEvolve: Global Practice Community
iEvolve: Global Practice Community is the leading-edge, global, integrally-informed, compassionate movement, and practice community co-founded by leading Integral Spiritual teachers Dr. Marc Gafni, Sally Kempton, Diane Musho Hamilton, and Sofia Diaz.
You may have seen the announcement of the Integral Spiritual Experience event sent out by Integral Life and iEvolve: Global Practice Community. And in case you are wondering “Who is iEvolve?” – we are inviting you to come and check us out!
The Integral Spiritual Experience is an iEvolve and Integral Life partnership event, originally initiated by Ken Wilber, Robb Smith, Dr. Rabbi Marc Gafni, Diane Musho Hamilton Sensei and Sally Kempton {formerly Swami Durgananda}.
Visit iEvolve: Global Practice Community and check out our upcoming events, visit our teacher’s page, join the iEvolve mailing list, listen to our featured dialogue between Spiritual Artist and Rabbi, Dr. Marc Gafni and Integral Rock Star and Comedian Stuart Davis, or sign up for our iEvolve telecourses.
You can also join us our iEvolve Facebook group!
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iEvolve Community Events
Sexuality, Spirituality, & Shadow:
The Three S’s of Personal and Dynamic Evolution
A Three-part Event Series
With iEvolve co-founders and faculty
Diane Musho Hamilton Sensei , Rabbi Marc Gafni, and Natya Priya Sofia Diaz
Part 1: February 13-15, 2009
Salt Lake City, Utah
Investment: Early-bird price $385 (regularly $450, offer expires Feb. 1st)
Scholarships are available
REGISTER today!
Join us for the kick-off on an integrally-informed community practice series, exploring the interconnection of sexuality, spirituality, and shadow.
By interweaving wisdom from the three traditions of Diane Musho Hamilton Sensei, Dr. Rabbi Marc Gafni and Natya Priya Sofia Diaz, we will explore why it is critical to integrate sex, spirit, and shadow on the spiritual path.
Through yogic practice, meditative inquiry, and interpersonal intimacy, we will deeply discover and refine how we engage these domains in our personal and professional lives.
Working in groups, with partners, and individually, you will:
* Explore the profound, provocative, and radically surprising relationship between sexuality, spirituality, and shadow
* Learn why it is vital to include these three domains in your spiritual journey
* Learn how to integrate all three of these vital domains into your practice life
* Untie knots that you may have carried with you since childhood, in order to experience greater freedom, clarity, and compassion in your personal and professional life
* Finally break down obstacles and melt away barriers that prevent you from living your Unique Life mission
* Uncover shadow material that has prevented you from living with an open heart
* Expand your mind and consciousness through perspective practices
* Learn how to conduct body, breath, and energy to gain greater intimacy
* Offer your deepest presence as love even when you are contracted
Rarely are contemplation, ecstatic movement, holy consideration and community evolution brought together, delighted in, and made manifest as an effective teaching vehicle.
If you crave great company, the profound pleasure of growth and laughter, and being challenged to the greatest depth of your gorgeous and evolving being, you will not want to miss this great adventure.
February 13-15, 2009
Salt Lake City, Utah
Investment: Early-bird price $385 (regularly $450, offer expires Feb. 1st)
Scholarships are available
REGISTER today!
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Integral Practice : A Year-Long Intensive with Diane Musho Hamilton Sensei and Rabbi Dr. Marc Gafni
Integral practice is a comprehensive approach to your personal evolution, growth and transformation. Integral Practice brings together the world’s best evolutionary practices and the most potent insights for you to engage on your personal growth journey. These insights have been lovingly gathered from the all of the great systems of mind and heart that have been flourishing on our planet since the dawn of humanity. These heart opening and mind-blowing methods of Integral Personal Evolution have been tried and tested in the spiritual lab of human potential and developed by Ken Wilber, together with Diane Musho Hamilton Sensei, Dr. Rabbi Marc Gafni and several other lineage holders from some of the great spiritual traditions, through the Integral Institute.
These practices and teachings have been brought together into a systematic program of spiritual cross-training, designed to radically transform your life on all levels and lines of your existence.
Integral practice uses the leading edge systems and models of human growth- East and West – and distills their major components into five simple insights and practices that are the essential elements or keys to unlocking and facilitating human evolution.
If you are committed to:
• Being love, giving love, and receiving love
• Being a significantly happier, deeper, and more evolved being
• Meeting your human obligation to grow and transform
• Committed to giving your most profound gifts to heal the fragmented world we live in
Then you CANNOT AFFORD NOT TO MISS OUR INTEGRAL PRACTICE TELECOURSE.
Life demands that we show-up in the gorgeous wonder of our pure excellence. We can either hear the personal address of the Kosmos calling us in love, to Wake Up and Be the Beauty that you Already Are, or remain asleep. If you are committed to genuine change, to embodying an enlightened evolutionary worldview, to being love, to being freedom in your inner and outer world, and to partnering with the Divine in re-creating the Kosmos – start today with Integral Practice!
In this year-long intensive, Integral Spiritual leaders and teachers Diane Musho Hamilton Sensei and Dr. Rabbi Marc Gafni will offer you personal challenges and deeply loving instruction through a breakthrough program for evolving your body, mind, and spirit through all quadrants, levels and lines of your life.
Learn tools to sustain your personal and spiritual growth practice for life. Develop an Integral Practice that is self-supportive, self-sustaining, and self-actualizing.
Integral Practice: A Year-long Intensive With iEvolve co-founders and Senior Teachers Diane Musho Hamilton Sensei and Rabbi Dr. Marc Gafni
Starts: Monday, March 23, 2009
Ends: Monday, March 15, 2010
Master Classes run for 2.5 hours and meets on Mondays once a month.
There will be optional small groups- Integral Practice Pods- that will meet in between every Master Class. Each Integral Practice Pod will have it’s own list serve, toll-free conference number, facilitator and call-in times.
We are offering this Year-long Intensive at this special, one time reduced rate
Registration is Limited to 75 Participants – Sign up Today!
Investment: Early-bird cost of $489 (regularly $569, offer expires Feb. 23rd)
For more information and to register, please visit our iEvolve Telecourses
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Integral Life Purpose
Unique Self: Realizing the Unique Purpose of Your Life as Your Spiritual Path
A Three-Week Telecourse with Dr. Marc Gafni
At the Integral Spiritual Center gathering in 2006, Dr. Rabbi Marc Gafni, in response to a spiritual invitation issued by Ken Wilber, unpacked and shared the principles of Integral Kabbalah. Dr. Marc shared with us one of the Great Illuminated Teachings of the Western Enlightenment Traditions – the teaching and practice of the Unique Self.
Since that time, this teaching has been adopted as a core module in the Integral Life Practice book and work, in the Big Mind book and work of Genpo Roshi, and in the work of many other Integral teachers.
We are therefore proud to present this new and compelling Integral Path of Transformation- the path and practice of the Unique Self: Realizing the Unique Purpose of Your Life as the Key to your Nondual Realization and Spiritual Path
In this special and limited, home study telecourse, spiritual teacher Dr. Rabbi Marc Gafni will share, illuminate, instruct and transmit this core teaching of the Western Enlightenment path. Based on foundational principles of Integral Kabbalah, Esoteric Christianity, and Esoteric Islam {Sufism}, Dr. Rabbi Marc will share with you the mystical teaching, practice and instruction of the path of Unique Self.
Join Dr. Rabbi Marc Gafni and practice this new, yet ancient dharma, for the transformation of your life!
In this three-week home study program, you will learn:
• The Four Noble Truths of Unique Self
• The complete set of Unique Self Practices that you can deploy in your life immediately, easily and effectively
• The five keys to unlock your Unique Self and Unique Purpose
• How to define and manifest your Unique Life Mission and Purpose in every situation
• The four Unique Self principles of loving which, when manifested, will transform your love relationships in a significant and powerful way
• First, second and third person Unique Self practices that will change your relationship to yourself, God, nature and community
Unique Self: Realizing the Unique Purpose of your Life as Spiritual Path A three-week Telecourse with Dr. Marc Gafni
Starts: Tuesday, March 3, 2009
Ends: March 17, 2009
Classes run for 1.5 hours and meet for three consecutive weeks on Tuesdays.
There will be optional small groups- Integral Practice Pods- that will meet in-between every Master Class. Each Integral Practice Pod will have it’s own list serve, toll-free conference number, facilitator and call-in times.
Course is limited to 100 participants
Investment: Early-bird cost of $125 (regularly $149, offer expires Feb. 24th )
To register, please visit our iEvolve Telecourses
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Integral Zen: A Year Long Intensive with Diane Musho Hamilton Sensei
Integral Zen is the application of what is known as the Integral map to Zen, itself. By applying the Integral map to Zen Buddhism, not only is the Zen tradition seen in context for the first time, but new insights start to emerge.
If you are a student of Zen, or are interested in becoming one, what can you expect when you enter and practice within the Zen Buddhist tradition, and does it change if you are practicing with a Zen lineage holder informed by the Integral Map?
In this year-long Integral Zen intensive, Diane Musho Hamilton Sensei will guide you through the various dimensions of an Integral Zen practice, from your relationship with the teacher, to the particulars of form, including the various structures that hold it all in place from a four-quadrant perspective.
Join Diane Musho Hamilton Sensei for an Integral Zen year-long intensive home study program.
During this year-long intensive, you will explore, engage and learn:
• The basics of zazen practice
• The Big Mind process – a truly Integral practice- developed by Zen Master Genpo Roshi
• How to cultivate awakening and compassion on your spiritual journey
• How to apply the Integral approach to your Zen practice
• Everyday Zen for everyday people
Integral Zen: A Year-long Intensive with Diane Musho Hamilton Sensei
Starts: Saturday, January 24, 2009
Ends: Saturday, December 19, 2009
Classes run for 1.5 hours and meet once a month on Saturdays.
Investment: Early-bird cost of $249 (regularly $399, offer expires Jan. 19th)
For more information and to register, please visit our iEvolve Telecourses
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Integral Journey of Love: Vancouver, BC with Marc Gafni
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iEvolve Telecourses with Dr. Marc Gafni
Integral Practice : A Year Long Intensive With Diane Musho Hamilton Sensei and Dr. Marc Gafni
Integral practice is a comprehensive approach to your personal evolution, growth and transformation. Integral Practice brings together the world’s best evolutionary practices and the most potent insights for you to engage on your personal growth journey. These insights have been lovingly gathered from the all of the great systems of mind and heart that have been flourishing on our planet since the dawn of humanity.
These heart opening and mind-blowing methods of Integral Personal Evolution have been tried and tested in the spiritual lab of human potential and developed by Ken Wilber, together with Diane Musho Hamilton Sensei, Dr. Rabbi Marc Gafni and several other lineage holders from some of the great spiritual traditions, through the Integral Institute. These practices and teachings have been brought together into a systematic program of spiritual cross-training, designed to radically transform your life on all levels and lines of your existence.
Integral practice uses the leading edge systems and models of human growth- East and West – and distills their major components into five simple insights and practices that are the essential elements or keys to unlocking and facilitating human evolution.
If you are committed to:
• Being love, giving love, and receiving love
• Being a significantly happier, deeper, and more evolved being
• Meeting your human obligation to grow and transform
• Committed to giving your most profound gifts to heal the fragmented world we live in
Then you CANNOT AFFORD NOT TO MISS OUR INTEGRAL PRACTICE TELECOURSE.
Life demands that we show-up in the gorgeous wonder of our pure excellence. We can either hear the personal address of the Kosmos calling us in love, to Wake Up and Be the Beauty that you Already Are, or remain asleep. If you are committed to genuine change, to embodying an enlightened evolutionary worldview, to being love, to being freedom in your inner and outer world, and to partnering with the Divine in re-creating the Kosmos – start today with Integral Practice!
In this year-long intensive, Integral Spiritual leaders and teachers Diane Musho Hamilton Sensei and Dr. Rabbi Marc Gafni will offer you personal challenges and deeply loving instruction through a breakthrough program for evolving your body, mind, and spirit through all quadrants, levels and lines of your life. Learn tools to sustain your personal and spiritual growth practice for life.
Develop an Integral Practice that is self-supportive, self-sustaining, and self-actualizing.
Integral Practice: A Year-long Intensive With iEvolve co-founders and Senior Teachers Diane Musho Hamilton Sensei and Rabbi Dr. Marc Gafni Integral Practice:
Starts: Monday, March 2, 2009
Ends: Monday, March 15, 2010
Master Classes run for 2.5 hours and meets on Mondays once a month.
There will be optional small groups- Integral Practice Pods- that will meet in between every Master Class. Each Integral Practice Pod will have it’s own list serve, toll-free conference number, facilitator and call-in times. We are offering this Year-long Intensive at this special, one time reduced rate Registration is Limited to 75 Participants – Sign up Today!
Investment: Early-bird cost of $489 (regularly $569, offer expires Feb. 23rd) P
lease email Kelly at kellysosanbearer@gmail.com after you have registered to receive details to access the calls and the class schedule.
Integral Life Purpose Unique Self: Realizing the Unique Purpose of Your Life as Your Spiritual Path
A Seven-Week Telecourse with Dr. Marc Gafni
At the Integral Spiritual Center gathering in 2006, Dr. Rabbi Marc Gafni, in response to a spiritual invitation issued by Ken Wilber, unpacked and shared the principles of Integral Kabbalah. Dr. Marc shared with us one of the Great Illuminated Teachings of the Western Enlightenment Traditions – the teaching and practice of the Unique Self.
Since that time, this teaching has been adopted as a core module in the Integral Life Practice program, in the Big Mind book and work of Genpo Roshi, and in the work of many other Integral teachers. We are therefore proud to present this new and compelling Integral Path of Transformation- the path and practice of the Unique Self: Realizing the Unique Purpose of Your Life as the Key to your Nondual Realization and Spiritual Path In this special and limited, home study telecourse, spiritual teacher Dr. Rabbi Marc Gafni will share, illuminate, instruct and transmit this core teaching of the Western Enlightenment path.
Based on foundational principles of Integral Kabbalah, Esoteric Christianity, and Esoteric Islam {Sufism}, Dr. Rabbi Marc will share with you the mystical teaching, practice and instruction of the path of Unique Self.
Join Dr. Rabbi Marc Gafni and practice this new, yet ancient dharma, for the transformation of your life!
In this seven-week home study program, you will learn:
* The Four Noble Truths of Unique Self
* The complete set of Unique Self Practices that you can deploy in your life immediately, easily, and effectively
* The five keys to unlock your Unique Self and Unique Purpose
* How to define and manifest your Unique Life Mission and Purpose in every situation
* The four Unique Self principles of loving which, when manifested, will transform your love relationships in a significant and powerful way
* First, second and third person Unique Self practices that will change your relationship to yourself, God, nature and community
Unique Self: Realizing the Unique Purpose of your Life as Spiritual Path
A Seven-Week Telecourse with Dr. Marc Gafni
Starts: Tuesday, March 3, 2009
Ends: April 14, 2009
Classes run for 1.5 hours and meet for seven consecutive weeks on Tuesdays. T
There will be optional small groups- Integral Practice Pods- that will meet in-between each class. Each Integral Practice Pod will have it’s own list-serve, toll-free conference number, facilitator and call-in times.
Course is limited to 100 participants
Investment: Early-bird cost of $149 (regularly $199, offer expires Feb. 24th )
Please email Kelly at kellysosanbearer@gmail.com after you have registered to receive details to access the calls and receive the class schedule.
Integral Zen: A Year Long Intensive with Diane Musho Hamilton Sensei
A student asked Roshi, “What is Integral Zen?” Roshi replied, “My life….”
If you are a student of Zen, or are interested in becoming one, what can you expect when you enter and practice within the Zen Buddhist tradition, and does it change if you are practicing with a Zen lineage holder informed by the Integral Map?
Join Musho Sensei in this year-long Integral Zen intensive and explore the various dimensions of an Integral Zen practice, from your relationship with the teacher, to the particulars of form, including the various structures that hold it all in place from a four-quadrant perspective.
Expand your Horizons with the Integral Framework
This telecourse will present the Integral Framework, an invaluable aid to helping you understand and categorize your experience. The framework we use is crucial for our growth, since it is both the clearing in which experience arises (the broader the framework, the more fully we can experience then many aspects of life) and the lens through which our experience (even our experience of emptiness!) is interpreted.
Experience Big Mind
A unique and revolutionary approach for transmitting the authentic teachings that emerged from Buddha’s enlightenment experience. By participating in Big Mind, you will gain profound insights in the illuminating experience from which Buddhism and all the world’s great religions originate.
Bring your Shadow into the Light
The religious traditions had no way of knowing about modern psychological notions such as the shadow, aspects of ourselves which we are unable to incorporate in 1st person (“me”) and is thus incorporated in 3rd person (“it”). For example, if we are unable to acknowledge our own hostility, we may project in onto others, seeing them as being hostile to us. Our shadows cause painful symptoms and tend to sabotage spiritual growth, even in the most steadfast of practitioners. This telecourse introduces practices which help us to identify our shadow and bring it to light, releasing stores of energy we never knew we had!
Experience Healthy Development through States and Stages
Another crucial insight of Integral Theory is that all people experience states (such as the great natural states of waking, dreaming, and deep sleep) and all people navigate through stages of development. Confusion between these conceptions can be perilous, and an understanding of them can help us to walk our spiritual path in a conscious fashion, and enter more deeply into relationship with emptiness and form.
During this year-long intensive, you will explore, engage and learn:
• The basics of zazen practice
• The Big Mind process – a truly Integral practice- developed by Zen Master Genpo Roshi
• How to cultivate awakening and compassion through your Zen practice
• How to apply the Integral approach to your Zen practice
• Everyday Zen for everyday people
Integral Zen: A Year-long Intensive with Diane Musho Hamilton Sensei
Starts: January 23, 2009
Ends: December 19, 2009
Classes run for 1.5 hours and meet once a month on Saturdays from 9-10:30AM (MST)
Investment: Early-bird cost of $249 (regularly $399, offer expires January 19th)
Please email Kelly at kellysosanbearer@gmail.com after you have registered to receive details to access the calls.
http://integrallife.com/contributors/marc-gafni
http://www.catalystmagazine.net/content/view/646/
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iEvolve: Global Practice Community Updates
iEvolve: Global Practice Community is a new global, integrally-informed practice community co-founded by leading Integral Spiritual teachers Sally Kempton, Diane Musho Hamilton, Marc Gafni and Sofia Diaz.
You may have seen the announcement of the Integral Spiritual Experience event sent out by Integral Life and iEvolve: Global Practice Community. And in case you are wondering “Who is iEvolve?” – we are inviting you to come and check us out!
The Integral Spiritual Experience is an iEvolve and Integral Life partnership event, initiated by Dr. Marc Gafni, Sally Kempton, Diane Musho Hamilton, and Sofia Diaz.
Visit iEvolve: Global Practice Community and check out our upcoming events, visit our teacher’s page, join the iEvolve mailing list, listen to our featured dialogue between Spiritual Artist and Rabbi, Dr. Marc Gafni and Integral Rock Star and Comedian Stuart Davis, or sign up for our home study programs.
You can also join us our iEvolve Facebook group!
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Sexuality, Spirituality, & Shadow:
The Three S’s of Personal and Dynamic Evolution
A Three-part Event Series
With iEvolve co-founders and faculty
Diane Musho Hamilton, Marc Gafni, and Sofia Diaz
Part 1: February 13-15, 2009
Salt Lake City, Utah
Investment: Early-bird price $385 (regularly $450, offer expires Feb. 1st)
Scholarships are available
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Join us for the kick-off on an integrally-informed community practice series, exploring the interconnection of sexuality, spirituality, and shadow.
By interweaving wisdom from the three traditions of Diane Musho Hamilton Sensei, Rabbi Marc Gafni and Natya Priya Sofia Diaz, we will explore why it is critical to integrate sex, spirit, and shadow on the spiritual path.
Through yogic practice, meditative inquiry, and interpersonal intimacy, we will deeply discover and refine how we engage these domains in our personal and professional lives.
Working in groups, with partners, and individually, you will:
* Explore the connection between sexuality, spirituality, and shadow
* Learn why it is important to include these three domains in your spiritual journey
* Untie knots in order to experience greater freedom, clarity, and compassion in your personal and professional life
* Break down barriers that prevent you from living your Unique Life mission
* Uncover shadow material that prevents you from living with an open heart
* Expand your mind and consciousness through perspective practices
* Learn how to conduct body, breath, and energy to gain greater intimacy
* Offer your deepest presence and love even when you are contracted
Rarely are contemplation, ecstatic movement, holy consideration and community evolution brought together, delighted in, and made manifest as an effective teaching vehicle.
If you crave great company, the profound pleasure of growth and laughter, and being challenged to the greatest depth of your gorgeous and evolving being, you will not want to miss this great adventure.
February 13-15, 2009
Salt Lake City, Utah
Investment: Early-bird price $385 (regularly $450, offer expires Feb. 1st)
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iEvolve Home Study Programs
Integral Zen: A Year Long Intensive with Diane Musho Hamilton Sensei
Integral Zen is the application of what is known as the Integral map to Zen, itself. By applying the Integral map to Zen Buddhism, not only is the Zen tradition seen in context for the first time, but new insights start to emerge.
If you are a student of Zen, or are interested in becoming one, what can you expect when you enter and practice within the Zen Buddhist tradition, and does it change if you are practicing with a Zen lineage holder informed by the Integral Map?
In this year-long Integral Zen intensive, Diane Musho Hamilton Sensei will guide you through the various dimensions of an Integral Zen practice, from your relationship with the teacher, to the particulars of form, including the various structures that hold it all in place from a four-quadrant perspective.
Join Diane Musho Hamilton Sensei for an Integral Zen year-long intensive home study program.
During this year-long intensive, you will explore, engage and learn:
• The basics of zazen practice
• The Big Mind process – a truly Integral practice- developed by Zen Master Genpo Roshi
• How to cultivate awakening and compassion on your spiritual journey
• How to apply the Integral approach to your Zen practice
• Everyday Zen for everyday people
For more information and to register, please visit our iEvolve Home Study Programs
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Integral Journey of Love: Creating a WE Space of Insight and Compassion
With Diane Musho Hamilton and Dr. Marc Gafni
November 21-23, 2008
Torrey, Utah
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All of the great spiritual traditions direct us toward one place – the place of love, of compassion, of extending an open heart towards all experience. It seems like it should be easy enough, and yet, the obstacles to true and durable loving are persistent and often difficult. The spiritual world talks well the practice of love, but it is so much harder to genuinely Be Love, to Live Love, to Practice Love.
All of us are hurt in love. All of us have felt at least a glimmer of love’s promise and joy.
To Be Love is to keep your heart open and act in integrity even when you feel empty, alone, devastated and hurt.
To Be Love means to keep your heart open, and live large and wise even when your ego brilliantly explains to you why it is okay and even necessary to close your heart and abandon those you once were sure you loved.
To Be Love means to experience ecstasy and profound joy as an ineradicable part of your every day experience for the duration of your lifetime.
How do we practice the wounds of love?
How do we evolve our pain into compassion and transform our wounds into wonder?
How do we integrate the radical rigor of masculine compassion with the radical embrace of feminine compassion?
This weekend is an exploration of this Integral Path of Love.
Led by Integral teachers Dr. Marc Gafni and Diane Musho Hamilton, we will enter the heart of love looking straight into the invitation and challenge love presents to us.
Some of the specific technologies of heart you will learn include…
Map – Map your Personal Journey through the lens of Integral theory
Inquire – Inquire how Hurt, Injury, and Disappointment inform your path
Discover - Discover your own Big Heart and innate Compassion
Understand - Gain insight into the play of Masculine and Feminine energies
Learn - Learn to identify and navigate the challenges and gifts of Eros in your own life
Uncover – Uncover shadow material that prevents you from living with an open heart
Please join with your highest self by joining us for this weekend.
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Trial by Internet? An Archetypal Spiritual Drama
Catalyst Magazine – July 2008
Marc Gafni could well turn out to be the hero of a spiritual epic—or, at least, a psychosexual whodunit blockbuster.
A rabbi and a Biblical scholar with several published books and a recently approved doctoral dissertation 
from Oxford, Gafni presently lives in Salt Lake City. (He anonymously authored “Spiritually Incorrect,” an occasional column that appeared last year in CATALYST.) He came to the new Zion two years ago from Tel Aviv, Israel, where he led a large, vibrant movement of Jews who lived on the alternative edge, beyond the fringes of organized religion. Perhaps too close to that edge, where dangerous things can happen—and for Gafni, they did.
Talking with people about Gafni, a certain pattern emerges: Here’s a guy you’ve hung out with, watching TV and knocking back almond crunch, someone who calls up in the middle of the day and talks your head off, someone who has the usual knotty relational history. He’s a friend of yours, a normal, somewhat eccentric guy. Then, little by little you realize that there’s something kind of, well, saintly about him.
Stories about Gafni’s actions lean toward the saintly as well: People say they have seen him go out of his way to bring estranged friends together. They’ve seen him take an entire room full of people through a journey of laughter and tears. They’ve felt an atmosphere around him so affectionate and wild that it sparks off energy most haven’t felt since childhood. They’ve heard him speaking about God and human responsibility and what it means to take care of others with a wisdom and nuance that makes them search their souls.
And even wilder—they know he is the subject of Internet stories that paint him as a guy who “harasses” women, a “sexual predator.”
Everything you observe and intuit about him says “Really good person.” The Internet gossip sites say “Really bad person.” Then you get to see hundreds of documents proving the Internet stories run the gamut from distortion to out-and-out lies, reflecting all the most shadowy sides of the blogosphere. It begins to occur to you that something deep is going on here.
On the surface, it’s a common story: A coalition of women accuse a charismatic spiritual leader of sexual misconduct. The stories sound convincing. It must be true. The leader falls.
Examine the evidence in this case, and you see something quite different: Years of recovered email and instant messages from the women involved, some as recent as three weeks before complaints were filed, flatly contradict their own stories. The messages show that every one of the women was quite enthusiastically involved with Gafni on her own initiative. What happened that caused them to band together and file complaints of harassment? And what caused their complaints to do so much damage? Spiritual politics, “victim feminism,” Gafni’s human complexities, and the Internet.
The more you get to know Gafni, the more you suspect he is being put through an epic spiritual test, what we might call the Test of Slander. It’s actually part of the biography of countless other teachers whose lives didn’t fit the “normal” social pattern and who ended up redefining a spiritual tradition. Gafni’s story is still in process. Perhaps 25 years from now it will be told as a saga of purification, trial by fire and, hopefully, ultimate liberation.
In the meantime, Gafni—this larger-than-life presence tucked into the compact body of a playful 47-year—old is living more or less anonymously in Salt Lake City.
The story we’re about to tell has certain all too familiar elements: one more example of how, in the Internet age, false accusations can become as established as fact, and how a gifted teacher with an anti-establishment bent and a bohemian lifestyle can find his private life subjected to what legal scholar Allen Dershowitz called “sexual McCarthyism.”
Rabbi Gafni—author of seven books, including the best-selling “Soul Prints,” and a popular lecturer and workshop leader—was founder of Bayit Hadash, an alternative spiritual movement in Israel. The organization held retreats, classes and massive services, often gathering hundreds of enthusiasts for Gafni’s celebratory Sabbath services, which included music, chanting and dancing. His lectures and classes on Jewish texts, and on the interface between spirituality, ethics, sexuality and what Western moral philosophers have called “the good life,” were not only widely attended, but had brought thousands of disaffected young Jews back into conversation with their tradition.
“Rabbi Gafni was doing something that had not been done in modern Israel,” says Dr. Gabriel Cousens, who attended his teachings in Israel. “He was presenting the traditional Jewish teachings in a way that revealed not only the mystical experience embedded in the tradition, but also offered a powerful experience of ecstasy and community. Most importantly, however, he was the first modern Jewish teacher I met who taught that Judaism was at its core a path to liberation.”
Born in Massachusetts in 1960, educated in a yeshiva (a Jewish religious high school), Gafni began teaching in the Orthodox community around New York City. From his early days as an apprentice rabbi and youth group leader, Gafni had a gift for bringing together the spiritual with the secular, working with people who wouldn’t normally talk to each other, and creating communities. He was known as a passionately committed teacher. He spent time as a rabbi in Florida, tripling the size of a young congregation. Then he moved with his second wife and two children to Israel, where he was rabbi in a settlement on the border of the West Bank. In the ’90s, he emerged as a popular public teacher in Jerusalem and then in Tel Aviv, writing books, lecturing to packed houses, and appearing at conferences and spiritual venues in the United States and Europe.
Gafni hosted a weekly hour-long national TV show in Israel for several years. In the U.S., he led crowded workshops on the alternative Jewish and spiritual scene. He taught around the world, including appearances at important synagogues and the Harvard Negotiation Project. When terrorists blew up school buses in Israel, he presented a series of spots on national television urging people to hold on to their humanity in the face of horror. He has recorded dialogues with the Dalai Lama, Byron Katie, Ken Wilber and other spiritual and philosophical leaders. “Soul Prints” was a best-seller in this country, won the prestigious NAPRA Nautilus award as the best spirituality book of 2001 and was made into a PBS special.
And in a conservative society, he supported gay rights and the ordination of women. His teaching pointed out the presence of a hidden goddess element in the Jewish religion, and called for the re-emergence of the feminine in spirituality.
A career like this tends to arouse envy—even, or perhaps especially, in spiritual communities. “People would complain that Gafni took up too much space,” says Gershon Winkler, himself an important Jewish teacher and author of many books, including “The Magic of the Ordinary.” “After he fell, one guy told me that he was actually relieved, because some of Gafni’s people now came to him.” There appears to have been a cadre of colleagues, older teachers and even a few students who wanted him out of the way.
Gafni’s main vulnerability was his counter-cultural and often bohemian lifestyle. Throughout his career, Gafni had several love affairs outside of marriage. “I tried to push the boundaries of what was possible. I experimented,” Gafni admits. “I sometimes chose a moment of love over other loyalties. Sometimes I was right, sometimes dead wrong. Where I was wrong, I’ve tried to ask forgiveness.”
During the period following his divorce from his third wife, his lovers included a few women who had worked with him in his community, taught with him, or served on the board of his organization. “I was working literally 24/7, teaching and traveling around the clock,” he says. “It seemed natural to be involved with people who were part of my circle. At the time, in my hubris, disguised even from myself, it felt to me that there wasn’t a moment free for anything like normal dating or personal life.”
He says he kept these relationships private, not because they seemed inappropriate or “wrong,” but because, like many people in his position, he preferred not to have his personal life the subject of gossip or attack.
One lover wrote after their relationship was over: “It’s easy to love you and it has been beautiful to discover you, to feel you, to explore you.” And added, “I’m grateful that we touched each other on this path.” She then thanked him for being in “full intention and clarity” in their relationship and honoring her “sacred autonomy.”
This woman would later file a complaint on the advice of a lawyer, saying that Gafni had promised to marry her to gain sexual relations—–a felony in Israel, where they lived. This claim, and the claim that Gafni somehow manipulated her, is refuted by both the tone and content of literally hundreds of her emails to him.
In 2005, Ha’Aretz, the leading Israeli newspaper, ran a glowing article on Gafni’s work, stressing his belief that the feminine godhead and the softer, more erotic aspects of spirituality need to be restored to contemporary Judaism. The article was widely quoted, causing an incendiary reaction among rabbis in the Orthodox community. Traditionalists who felt threatened by his influence and provocative personal style objected to his stress on the goddess in Judaism, and some of Gafni’s former teachers and colleagues denounced him for promoting “pagan Judaism.” The Wikipedia entry on Gafni credits him—or accuses, it depends on how you read it—with leading the movement to bring eros back into Judaism.
At about that time, and some say as a direct result of the Ha’Aretz spread, a rabbi who had clashed with Gafni in his youth gave a story about him to the proprietor of a website devoted to outing Jewish clerics alleged to be sexual predators. The site collects rumors, innuendos and complaints about rabbis, some of whom are undoubtedly people who indeed abused their position. But the site is also known for its maliciousness, venomous language, and for mixing fact with outright fiction.
The site’s proprietor is Vicki Polin, who in 1989, under the name Rachel, presented herself on national daytime television as the survivor of a Jewish satanic cult which sacrificed babies. She claims to have sacrificed—that is, murdered—at least one baby herself. She considers it her mission in life to report those whom she calls “Jewish abusers.” Ironically, the site so evokes the energy of anti-Semitic hate sites that several such hate sites link to hers.
In Gafni’s case, the stories described two relationships, one when Gafni was 19, the other a one-time encounter when he was 24. Gafni insists neither involved more then petting, and that both were mutually engaged. Couched in the hate-speech style that has become so familiar in the blogosphere, the stories called Gafni a “known predator” who had “molested young women” and included purportedly first-person interviews with both of these women by Luke Ford, a former pornographer and a gossip columnist for the porn industry. Gafni’s version of these events is supported by two polygraph tests administered by Dr. Gordon Barland, one of the world’s leading experts in the field.
The stories on the website make no attempt to distinguish fact from rumor, distorted memory, or skewed interpretation of events. Polin and Ford painted a teenage romance between 19-year-old Gafni and his 14-year-old girlfriend as “child molestation,” and among other things, accused him of changing his name to avoid his past. (In fact, Gafni had followed the common custom of hebraicizing his name when he moved to Israel, and always referred to his family name in his books and other publications.) All of this forms the complex background for what happened next.
On an evening in May 2006, Gafni landed in Tel Aviv after a 10-hour flight returning from a teaching trip to the United States. He expected to be met at the plane by his girlfriend.
As his plane touched down, he dialed the number of his program director to discuss logistics of a workshop scheduled for the next day. Instead he heard an unidentified feminine voice screeching, “You are finished! Go to [a certain lawyer's office in Tel Aviv] at midnight, or go to jail.” Gafni thought he had the wrong number. He called again. The same message. He began to tremble as he realized that something terrible was going on. Over the next several hours, he began to piece things together. A former personal assistant, who had been threatening the organization with legal action over back pay, and who over the previous year had sent him dozens of abusive emails, had gotten together with another woman to discuss Gafni. They discovered that Gafni had been intimately involved with both of them. We can’t know what exactly motivated them from there. We do know what they did: They went to the Tel Aviv police and filed a complaint.
Sexual harassment laws have given women much-needed legal protection and gone a long way to support civil treatment of women everywhere. But when a woman tells the story of a sexual encounter and claims harassment, the man—guilty or innocent—will likely be in deep trouble if he does not have physical proof to the contrary. The woman doesn’t even have to seek legal redress—the complaint alone can sometimes be enough to get a professor or executive reprimanded or even fired. To complicate matters for the man, in Israel, unlike anywhere else, sexual harassment is a criminal offense.
The women told the police that Gafni had, in one case, used his authority as an employer, and in the other, promised marriage to persuade her to have sex with him. They convinced other women, whom they discovered had been involved with Gafni over the years, to sign their affadavit. In fact, none of the women had been either employees or students of Gafni at the time the relationships began.
By the time Gafni arrived in Israel that night, the women had convinced his co-teacher, as well as key members of his staff, that they needed protection, and cited others as possible victims. Members of the community were prevented from speaking to Gafni by the women, who claimed that he was a danger to the community.
Gafni says no one asked for his side of the story or checked any facts with him. “It was like a weird dream. I had never sexually harassed anyone. I had proof. I went to my computer for the emails I’d exchanged with these women—there were tons of them.”
To his shock, a key batch of relevant emails and other correspondence between himself and one of the complainants—his former assistant—were gone. They had been erased from his computer.
Worse than a weird dream, it was now a nightmare. He had no way of refuting the complaints. By this time, the story had been leaked to the Jewish press. Though many people in his community felt that Gafni was being railroaded, hysteria prevailed. Without consulting Rabbi Gafni, without cross-questioning the complainants or checking into their motives, a chain reaction was set in motion which resulted in the dissolution of Gafni’s movement. Several newspapers published sensational articles chronicling Gafni’s “downfall.” One reported (falsely) that he had been accused of rape. Another (again, falsely) claimed that he had made promises to marry five women. Within a few days, Gafni’s teaching work and the organization to which he had dedicated his life had been discredited and destroyed.
A group of Salt Lake attorneys helped Gafni recover the deleted data from his computer and then carefully review his correspondence with the women. “There is not a credible basis for legal action against [Gafni],” writes attorney Fredrick Thaler of Ray, Quinney Nebeker, a Salt Lake law firm, in a letter posted on Gafni’s website. “The complaints have no merit,” writes Charlotte Miller, who also served as Gafni’s legal council.
However, like the many commentators who assumed that the accusations against the Duke lacrosse team were true, people moved to distance themselves from him immediately.
According to feminist writers such as Dafna Pattai, Cathy Young, Laura Kipnis and Bell Hooks, the key reason for this distancing is fear. In a culture where truth is less important than perception, people are afraid to be associated with someone accused of sexual misconduct, even when they know the accusations are untrue. Associates fear liability, or being perceived as not protecting the ostensible victims—two consequences of defending the accused in a culture that assumes that women or groups of women always tell the truth about sexual harassment.
This belief persists despite data to the contrary, including the recent collapse of the case against the Duke lacrosse players, not to mention the historic experience of black men lynched because a white woman interpreted a casual glance as sexual harassment.
Feminist writers such as Laura Kipnis and Cristina Hoff Summers have written extensively to expose this kind of “victim feminism”: a stance which assumes that in situations of this sort, the woman is always a helpless victim of male desire.
“His best friends basically left him for dead,” says Gershon Winkler.
Gafni felt he had no choice but to return to the United States to think through what he should do. In the pain and sorrow of those first few days, he decided that as the creator of the organization which had turned on him, he should take on himself responsibility for the dysfunctions that had led to the situation. He wrote a public letter claiming all spiritual responsibility for what had happened. Accepting the advice of a friend and mentor, he took personal responsibility for the “sickness” behind what had happened and volunteered to seek treatment. This seemed, at the time of trauma and confusion, to be the only way to defuse the growing frenzy. Without the missing emails, he had no proof of his innocence, and at that time he had no idea the disappeared computer files would be restored.
Gafni refused any interviews and for the next two years maintained public silence, allowing the stories that were circulating to stand as “truth.” In the meantime, he began an intensive formal process of self-examination and inner work.
It was about this time that Gafni came to Salt Lake City at the invitation of a friend and teaching colleague, mediator and Zen teacher Diane Hamilton and her husband, former Utah chief justice Michael Zimmerman. Gafni was living quietly in a small home in Sugar House. Soon after we met, he told us about a pivotal event that had shown him both the depths of his fall, and the painful but spiritually profound path to turning the pain into compassion.
He had gone several times to Sabbath dinners at the house of a local family, mainly for the sake of experiencing community. One night, the host took him aside. “One of our guests read the Internet and says she can’t sit at the table with you. I know it’s not true, but she thinks you are a child molester,” he told Gafni. “I have to ask you to leave and not come back. I’m sorry. There is nothing I can do.”
Gafni realized that he—who just six months before would have been an honored guest at such a gathering—was in essence a pariah. “I was stunned at first to realize that people were looking at me through the lens of a hate site, and couldn’t see who I am,” he said. “That night, I was up all night, meditating about it, awash in agonized tears. Suddenly, in the midst of my grief, this profound feeling of joy came over me. In Hebrew wisdom, we speak of how the divine feminine, the Shekhinah, has been exiled by God, and lives as hidden sparks inside human souls. I realized that I was participating in the pain of the exiled Shekhinah, the sorrow of the divine feminine thrown out of the kingdom. I, like her, was wrongly exiled and sat in dust and ashes. We were together. As I realized this, my heart became so ecstatic that I began to dance.
“Then I remembered the hidden teaching about the old Hassidic masters. These famous rabbis would sometimes discard their robes and wander as beggars through the villages of Western Europe, knocking on the doors of wealthy devotees. Invariably, they would be thrown out by people who, if they had seen them in full regalia, would have honored them.
“It all fit together for me then.
“I had spent my life seeking after the goddess, trying to return the feminine to her place…and that in some extreme sense the Shekhinah was testing my love, and she had hurt me because in some sense I hadn’t seen something about her. These relationships had hurt women I loved. Even while she was hurting me, she was embracing me. And I was here on the back roads of Utah to discover something about the divine feminine so that I might speak of her in new ways. I danced in real ecstasy for hours on end.”
Gafni later shared the incident with his friend, Brother David Stendl-Rast, who was reminded of an anecdote about Saint Francis: A disciple once asked, “What would be for you the most perfect joy?” Francis replied that for him, perfect joy would be to seek shelter in a house, be rejected and thrown out, and left to lie in the mud with the dogs.
Gafni says this teaching, which might have seemed wildly extreme and weird to him previously, actually described the profound spiritual opportunity that he had begun to see in this moment of his life. So along with examining his part in what he called the “contribution system” that had created this situation, and the qualities in himself that needed to change, Gafni also began a powerful inner journey into the subtleties of the masculine-feminine relationship.
“Sexuality creates wounds—sometimes mortal ones,” he writes in an unpublished essay called “The Wounds of Love.” “But if we learn to live wide open even as we are hurt by love, then the divine wakes up to its own true nature. To be firm in your knowing of love, even when you are desperate, and to be strong in your heart of forgiveness even when you are betrayed, this is what it means to be holy.”
Along with his inner work, Gafni began collecting documentary evidence to prove the falsity of the claims against him. He took polygraph tests with internationally recognized polygraph expert Gordon Barland which fully supported his assertion that the relationships with these women had been mutual, and had not resulted from any deception or inappropriate deployment of power on Gafni’s part.
He underwent an extensive psychological evaluation with three independent evaluators. Their conclusions and his own were summarized by by Paul J. Goodberg, M.A.: “I am convinced that Rabbi Gafni never abusively hurt or exploited anyone. He is completely reputable.”
Ray, Quinney Nebeker turned his computer over to PeakSpan, LLC, a Salt Lake data recovery firm, which recovered valuable information and proved data had been intentionally removed.
“Of course, I regret with all my heart that anyone experienced hurt through their relationship with me. And, remember what Bono sings? `We hurt each other and we do it again.’ The key is what we do with our hurt,” Gafni says. “But what I most deeply regret is that I allowed myself to jeopardize the work we were doing by engaging in these relationships. I believed that what we were doing was sharing love, and that therefore there was nothing ethically, and certainly not legally, wrong. I still believe that. But I also recognize that a spiritual teacher has to hold strong boundaries around his personal life. Even mutual relationships with powerful and autonomous women are a problem for a public teacher. Moreover, in retrospect, our relationship did not serve the highest growth of these women; it endangered our movement and let down my supporters, friends and partners. In that sense—although I was unconscious of it at the time—they were unethical relationships and I regret that deeply.”
But even by Israel’s strict standard, in no way did he break the law.
Gafni has contracts for several new books and is beginning to teach again. He has been invited to create and host a documentary movie that uses the frame of his story to look into contemporary sexual and spiritual politics, and how rumor, innuendo and hysteria can destroy a life. And to show how a life can be rebuilt in love without bitterness. Most of all, he seems committed to helping foster a social justice movement that works to end genocide, human trafficking and sexual slavery in the world. Gafni seems determined not to attack his accusers, unless they leave him with no choice, but rather to facilitate healing.
“It is the challenge of the spiritual practitioner,” says Diane Musho Hamilton, “and especially that of a teacher, to become intimate with the processes of life and death, of destruction and of transformation. In this way, everything that arises, whether it appears as good or bad, right or wrong, fair or unjust, is regarded as the path. To walk it requires great fearlessness, an abundance of compassion, a willingness to accept blame, and the offering of forgiveness.”
Sally Kempton, a former journalist, leading spiritual teacher and second wave feminist was asked what good might come from this story. She responded, “Marc has gone through a deep evolution. He will be an even deeper, better teacher in the second half of his life than he was in the first. The question is, can the people involved move from victimhood to power and responsibility? If they can, then Marc, the women, and all the shadowy players behind the scenes, will offer us great hope for healing in our world.”
The third act of this drama has yet to be written. Can this spiritual teacher come back from the dead? The answer is most likely “yes,” due to Gafni’s unflagging persistence. Did the obloquy and ignominy of the last two years break his spirit? No, though it has left some scars. Yet, throughout the whole of this nightmare, in circumstances that could easily, and forgivably, break the spirit of nearly any other person, Gafni has managed to hold onto his chronic optimism and genuine love for humanity.
Jeff Bell is a writer, part-time indie filmmaker, musician, wonk and political consultant. He is the former Democratic National Committee communications director for Utah and former president of the Children’s Justice Corps. Greta deJong is editor and publisher of CATALYST. For more about Marc Gafni, visit www.marcgafni.com
